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#StopAsianHate Racial Stereotypes of Asian Americans and Internalized Trauma

On March 16, 2021 a domestic terrorist killed 8 people, 6 of whom were Asian women, in Atlanta. Let's not mince words here, this was not a "sexual addiction" or the result of a "bad day". This was a targeted attack on Asian women. But this isn't an isolated incident. Hate crimes against all AAPI people have risen, especially after former President Trump referred COVID-19 as the "China Virus" and "Kung Flu" with many pundits, politicians, and people co-opting those derogatory terms.  From the onset of COVID-19 and we were ordered to wear masks and quarantine, I have seen the micro-aggressions directed toward Asian Americans. The glares from people at AAPI, communicating "this is your fault", "you brought this on us" . The way that people would walk on the other side of the street, profiling AAPI as automatic careers of the disease, the same way Black folk are profiled "walking while Black". Some may not be fam...

A Dying Breed: The Sensitive Man

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Original piece written by me in 2009 Allow me to introduce the sensitive man.   We are the rare subspecies of man who is expressive, emotional, affectionate, and attentive. The sensitive man's religion is sensualism. Sensualism is the love of the spirit of sex, romance and eroticism. Love is our God. Men like Martin Luther King Jr. and Mahatma Gandhi are our prophets. And men like Marvin Gaye, Barry White, James Ingram, Luther Vandross, Jeffrey Osborne, Prince & R. Kelly are our ministers. I guess that makes R. Kelly our Catholic priest but that's besides the point. The dominant species of man, the macho brutes, dismisses us as faggots. Though we do not belong to the gay subspecies, we share a kinship with them. I guess that makes us the male mulattos, because we represent a hybrid. In our relationships with women, we bear the burdens of our entire sex. Women carry the baggage of previous hurts at the hands of the macho brutes. Therefore, we endure the presumpti...